2 months old baby

Question: When does a child start sleeping atleast 4-5 hours ar a stretch at night? I am sleep deprived and am angry all the time. I cry all the time even at the slightest thing i cry. I had a c section. My back hurts i feel cheated as it was my husband and his moms idea to have a child this early. I had just completed three months of my marriage when he decided to try for a baby. I left my job at my native to come and stay with my husband at his work city. I was searching for jobs there and he decided this. And now i dont have a job, i have a child with whom i am not able to bond, i feel terrible all the time, my husband doesn't even stay awake one night for the baby and he had told me that i just need to deliver the baby rest all he will takecare of. I feel cheated, feel like running away somewhere but then realise that i dont have a job and have to depend on him for money. My parents help me a lot but i feel ashamed to ask them for money for my needs still . My social life is ruined because the baby needs care. I feel cheated and alone in caring for the baby. I dont know why i am feeling this way. I hate my husband now and his mom especially. She is the one responsible for ruining my life. I am not happy. I loved our marriage but now all i think about is getting a divorce. Is something wrong with me? Am i a bad mother?

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Answer: no!!! You are all right, it's very common and known as a post delivery depression. Even such a thoughts come to Me so I went to psychologist for a while and got relief but whenever I feel like it again I go again because I should be good mentally for myself first of all. I also used to work since my youth and it's difficult for me sitting at home now. I may shout and I may cry because too many things are going not as we have expected. But the good thing we did my husband always goes with me to psychologist when we need to solve something and follow doctors instructions. He also start sharing household works with me. Try to talk clearly with your husband or go to psychologist it will be better. We also ruined our marriage and keep trying to save it now. Hope we will successful in it. Otherwise if something lead to divorce your husband will cover your and your baby needs by court decision. But it's really the last thing you should do.
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    Jincy george755 days ago

    Thankyou for taking your time to answer my question. Also for telling me that I am going through a medical condition. Thankyou so much.

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    Vera Tikhaya755 days ago

    Welcome dear! It need time and patience and specialists support to be gone. I believe all will be fine within some weeks or months!

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    Vera Tikhaya755 days ago

    It takes time

Answer: I can understand your situation. Usually infants will sleep for longer time after 3 months, so most likely you just need to wait for one more month. Try to sleep when your baby sleeps. Take adequate rest and eat proper food. If possible better to stay with your parents for some time, it really helps... Don't think of divorce at this point. Focus on your & new borns health now. C section recovery takes longer time, so you need some additional help. Try to be little diplomatic and get some help from ur in-laws (if nothing works out). Believe me you are not a bad mother, you are just going through postpartum depression. You need to go out for lunch/dinner or friends house. Talk to people whom you are comfortable with and try to make yourself feel comfortable. Hope it helps. Wish you speedy recovery sister!
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    Jincy george755 days ago

    Thankyou so much your time and making me realise that i am going through a medical condition. Thankyou.

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