Question: Hi friends, I am 32 weeks pregnant and I am having back pains , It worsens when I stand in the kitchen while cooking for more than 15 mins at a stretch. My MIL came to stay with us after 7-1/2 months of my pregnancy. She doesn't directly says me to cook but even doesn't bothers to cook sometimes during peak times like lunch or dinner. She looks more I retested to cook for his son rather than me. Truth is I did not wanted any help from her and I had a cook for both lunch and dinner but now due to corona , I have stopped my cook , and now i am having stress a bit due to her and her behaviour. My parents are completely unwell and cannot come to me either. I am feeling completely helpless.
Answer: Ohhhh....so sorry fr u.. y doesnt dis stop.. dont stand fr too long..whienever u feel tired just sit down..tel directly u r not able to...dont push urself too hard..
Question: Hello ladies,
How are you all? Be safe and healthy and stay in your homes until this corona virus goes off. Today I don't have anything to ask but yes today I'm going to share what I'm feeling being a mom of 20months old baby boy. Being a mom is a beautiful feeling but having its responsibility is bit tough, that to be handling my cranky kid and doing household activities.
I'm not taking care of me, neither I'm getting time for myself to do something on me nor I dress up good for my day to day household work. I'm feeling like I have lost my beauty somewhere doing and taking care of family and their needs.
After waking up in morning and sleeping late at night, I get fresh very quickly that to be in 10-15mins and then change my kid's diaper and give him milk to drink, then I take him to our balcony to see outside and then came inside to play with him until my husband came from washroom after 1hour. Then I take bath and to pooja in 5mins because after all this i need to rush to kitchen to prepare breakfast and clear washed utensils from bucket because maid has to come night utensils. After preparing breakfast and running after my kid, we have our breakfast and now after being corona +ve (I'm all fine now, just a weakness and a little bit cough is left) I get tired easily and let my kid take his 1st nap after waking up in morning and then I prepare lunch and give fruits to my husband (he likes to have fruits). The day goes like this only and I'm not doing anything for myself. Today I have realised that my husband has also lost all his interest in me and today when my mother-in-law came for a while she don't feel like talking to me and today I noticed that she was looking at me with such dull face and from there too I realised that I'm not looking good because my mother-in-law considers or maybe any person feel like talking to u when u luk good or feel rejuvenated but I don't. Multiple work is going in my mind because I feel like till my mother-in-law is here I should complete few work and that's what my husband expect from me and says it too. I'm feeling bit sad because from past so many months I'm thinking and looking at myself wherein i see not a good luking person or refreshing person anymore which i used to luk before my marriage. Hence, I'm sad 😔
Answer: Don't be sad dear , this is common problem every women faces during this period , don't take too much work make ur work while the baby was awake manage him with toys and kitchen utensils to play and make him to sit in kitchen and always watch him what he was doing and complete the cooking in an hour and don't clean vessels leave it to your maid after feeding he will surely falls asleep for at least two hours mine will sleep three hours , now this time was ours u can sleep u can watch TV,or spend time with your husband this works for me wonderfully thank you dear and happy parenting