4 years old baby

Question: My son is 4yr 3 mnth old.. He is very emotional kid but very naughty.. He never obey my words.. Until I say him to punish.. And after saying that he starts crying,, sorry mumma and praying like he is the victim..and if I forgive him again he do the same and if punish him he act like he is scared and make me guilt.. This is him regular activities.. Naughty, not listing anyone,punishment and then sorry and bla bla... But it's hurting me.. I feel guilty for scolding him or beating. I m really not understanding that what should I do..coz he is very emotional but why he became non response when I stop him to do.. And after punishment the same boy again became so scared and emotionally hurt

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Answer: You need to take it easy. It's okay for your little one to be naughty. Kids are exploring the eirkd and hence they may make mistakes, never compare your child with others that greatly reduces his morale. Talk to him gently, sometimes it's like getting into your Childs shies and understanding why he might do something that you say no. Sit with him and do the thing with him and try to explain if he does then it may be harmful for him and if it harms to him mom will be hurt. Try to emotionally balance his curiosity. You can stop talking for a while stop interfere for a while and see what he does... If the comes to you to inquire that you are not talking say blatantly that you are hurt and see for his cues. Try to bond with him when he makes mistake. Punishment is a temporary solution. You cannot incorporate values into your child by punishing. Hope it helps! Keep posted here how things go with one month trial. Take care.
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