Few weeks old baby

Question: My second baby is 13 days ... His wt is 3.226kg during birth. I had all medicines, fruits, .... But still my baby looks lean, darker, less hair, ... His fingers in both hand and toes are fair and good. Why? What's reason? What shall I do now?

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Answer: Baby changes color so don't think too much he will tk time to adjust
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