Question: Hey friends,
I need your support on the worst topic ever ....!!
My husband has a habit to masturbating, he enjoys it more than sex.. !! Even before I could get pregnant he completely lost interest in sex in other words his nerves in the dick had become week and whenever I'm all set for sex and we try to have sex he wouldn't erect and i had many times felt ashamed and disheartened...!!
I got to know about his masturbation when we met a sexologist and that was the reason that his sexual part and our sex life became worst..!!
After taking treatment, we saw improvement in his problem and finally I am now 8 months pregnant..!!
I previously had 2 miscarriages and now due to Placenta previa doctor suggested me to stay away from sex and I never had sex in the last 8 months due to the same..!!
However I started noticing that he watches porn sites everynight and masturbates very often in the night after I sleep...!!
How do I get control over this as I'm getting emotionally disturbed as I'm unable fulfill his need and I'm not worried as he had this habit since very long time...!! My concern is he just recovered and started doing the same mistake of masturbation I do not want to be a clown in the bed post delivery...!!
Answer: My suggestion would be ask him to start playing video games such as playstations, stick cricket like such stuff. Actually he got addicted to that, may be he has that habbit since childhood. Ask him what stituation makes him start doing that, like when he is tensed or he gets some feeling at that time, what I mean to say is there must be a trigger point which makes him do such things, if u got to know this ask him to play ang games on mobile. Games that keeps him busy, its is best option.Actually masterbation reduces stress, so might be some reason he starts doing that. Ask him when he is with group of people then also he feel like doing so? Mostly when we are sorrounded by people we dnt do it. When we feel someone is watching we dnt do it.Tell him to keep himself busy. If he want him not to do such thjngs then till ur pregnant start sleeping with other family members at night. If he continues this then the urge to do such things will stop. Try it once. Apart from all these, u start saying positive affirmations about his materbation habit such as he will stop doing it, believe it when u say. He will definately stop it 100 %. U have to be patient with that things. Remember thoughts manifests. Good luck