Question: Hi my son is very aggressive and get angry and throws any thing which is in his hand and if u try and make him understand he shouts back and runs away. Plz help me out
Answer: Its quite normal and it is a phase which will pass. Try appreciating the child if they behave nicely. Give a star on their hand or something like their favourite dish if they behaved nicely. Child show awsome improvement if they are appreciated for their good behaviour.
Being with a stubborn kid can get upsetting and frustrating for u as a parent but make sure do not let them see that their behavior upsets u. Try taking control of the situation with few below mentioned tips:-
1.) If the kids are given choices of there own wish it creates a win win situation they will do what u r asking them to do in return u do what they want to do. Most of the times the things that they ask for are quite small things which makes them happy.
2.) Doing things in a play way method also helps getting kids involved. They follow ur instruction easily if u ask them to do it in a play way method. Tell them to do things in a fun way.
3.) Stay very calm and patient.
4.) Appreciation does wonders so praise them if they have been good.
Hope it helps.